SAFEST SEX POSSIBLE

(Warning: Sexual subject matter below.  I am going to get a little detailed and what some people may consider graphic at times, which is necessary in order to get the lesson across.  Discontinue reading now if sexual subject matters bother you in any way, and please note that this topic is intended to be open to any/all sexual orientations.)

I felt that injecting this subject matter here would be as good a time as any to cover it briefly, while getting some new concepts out there that don’t seem to be readily known and that can help people have the safest sex possible.  Since most of us at one point or another in our lives become sexually active, it’s important that some ideas are shared since I have a large focus on the immune system as it relates to overall health and direct tie-ins to fat loss, as my materials show.

Most people are aware of the various Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) out there, so I’m not going to spend much time discussing those.  Instead I’ll reference a few people rarely think about, and expand on some new anecdotal evidence as far as communicable diseases go.

The reader should understand that sexually transmitted diseases/infections can come in bacterial, viral and yeast/fungal varieties.

I personally believe it is possible that virtually any disease that is caused by a pathogen may be transferred from one person to another.  The common route is going to be via shared body fluids, such as saliva, semen and vaginal fluid.  But diseases can be spread, unfortunately, via much easier routes such as through simple skin contact, even light contact via viral shedding.

I do not want to cause immense amounts of concern with this.  I simply want to cause *awareness* of this, so that the reader is conscious of it and takes it into consideration when forming relationships, most importantly if engaged in more promiscuous forms of sex such as the hook up apps, etc.

Herpes and HPV, for example, can happen through dry skin-to-skin contact.  Herpes somewhat rarely, but HPV seems to happen much more readily.

The more unusual pathogens is what I wanted to make sure I mentioned in this article; those of candida and even Lyme disease.

It is speculated by professionals in this field that both can be transferred through sexual contact.  There is a Lyme specialist, who himself a doctor, acquired Lyme disease.  Having it unrecognized as such, as Lyme so often is, he had to discover on his own through a long process how difficult it is to detect with western tests, and how debilitating it can be.  Through his journey, he was able to discover that sexual partners had shared the same type of Lyme bacteria together, likely of course through their sexual activity as married partners.

One of the partners was symptomatic (suffering from the illness), the other was asymptomatic (not feeling ill at all).

It is speculated that Lyme is far more common than western medicine realizes.  Because it can be so difficult to detect, it may often be diagnosed as anything from fibromyalgia, to MS, to rheumatoid arthritis.

I know someone personally who dealt with this.  This person was in absolute misery for many months, misdiagnosed.  When an eastern practitioner finally diagnosed them with Lyme…and the person started on an active anti-bacterial protocol as if infected with Lyme…they began to improve significantly within a fairly short time, and get most of their life back.

With candida/yeast overgrowth, it is understandable; the vagina can harbor excessive yeast readily in many women, and contact with the moisture there could understandably translate to plenty of opportunity to be infected.  Our tongues may measure one’s degree of possible yeast/fungus overgrowth in the body, by the appearance of the white tongue.  With heavy antibiotic use, “thrush” can occur, which demonstrates this.  So it is possible that oral sexual contact with a person having this issue may spread the condition.

I have known people with what were believed to be severe candida infections.  In one case in particular, her sexual partner did not acquire any symptoms at all after over a year of sexual contact.

It is my opinion, that the strength and integrity of his immune system is what enabled him to contend with this, despite most people’s immune system having a tough time dealing with yeast in its mutated, candida form. 

 

TACTICS

OLD MILITARY TACTIC:

An old military tactic that I rarely to never hear people talking about is one I believe may help with the prevention of disease.  This tactic may be useful in stopping sex-related urinary tract infections (UTI’s) and possibly prostate infections. 

The simple practice of drinking a tall glass of water before sexual activity, timing it so that there is a need to urinate immediately after sexual activity.  This technique dates way back, but I’ve heard of several men in particular, who had very active sex lives with a great many partners; and seemed to be able to avoid disease.  I hate to report this, but that even included not wearing a condom during sex.

For the record: I am in no way endorsing or encouraging any man to not wear a condom!  In fact, I very specifically *encourage* condom use.

The flush-out the water provides, along with the acidity of the urine, may be enough to stop the entry of some pathogens via this route.  My only point here being that it may be better than doing nothing at all, so I felt almost an obligation to at least mention it.

ORAL SEX SECRET: PLEASING TASTE, PATHOGEN MANAGEMENT:

Both sexes complain about the taste at times.  There are of course cleanliness factors, and that part is self-evident so there is no need to expand upon it; if your partner is not clean, tell him or her to go GET clean!  😉  (In a nice, and hopefully fun way of course…perhaps helping them get clean ;)).

The secret I’m going to share is one I haven’t seen discussed hardly anywhere else, and can offer an interesting, rarely-though-of remedy to the issue of taste; the fact that the person *performing* oral sex, should have a clean mouth for their own enjoyment of the experience.  It may add added protection for the receiver of the act, but this relates specifically to the one giving oral sex.

If this concept is new to you, it boils down to simply this:

Have a clean mouth before performing oral sex.  A favorite mouth-cleaning option for me is to use hydrogen peroxide (H2O2) which is readily available at your grocery or drug store, very cheap, and is has been used as a generic mouthwash since Gramma and Grampa’s time.

The typical solution is half water, half H202 as the label suggests.  Full strength can be a bit rough on the teeth and gums, so I use that mostly only for medicinal purposes, perhaps brief post-sex act would be a good time to consider.  I know someone who uses almost only full strength most of the time.

The “fresh” feeling after use is not like that of a mouthwash.  It is a somewhat sterile taste, for lack of better comparison.  There are no added flavors nor alcohol like most mouth washes (the alcohol of which I believe is causing more problems in the long run than it resolves).

So it’s not exactly a “fresh” feeling, but more sterile and perhaps what some people would label as “medicine-y,” but that is not how I would define it. 

After the bubbling of the solution is gone in the mouth, it requires another rinse or two to expel the remainder of the H2O2, then we’re good to go.

The extreme oxidation it causes in the mouth sure does clean things up.  Once the mouth is this clean, the flavor of your partner is more “pure,” so that we’re not “mixing germs,” so to speak, and resulting in less potential adverse taste.  And based on feedback I’ve received so far, this seems to make the experience more pleasurable for the giver of the oral sex overall (I welcome feedback on this if you would be willing to share such a thing, lol).  A person’s own oral issues could be what causes a great deal of the distaste that some people have with the experience of oral sex.  Perhaps give it a shot and see if it agrees with you.

Then after performing oral…and I *know* this ain’t all that romantic…it is a good idea to immediately clean up, again using more of the H202 or similar rinse to help reduce pathogen exposures which will of course be at among their highest with saliva and genital fluid combining.  There can be direct sublingual absorption of pathogens aside from topical issues associated with this kind of contact.

For the record, some couples actually *prefer* these cleaning practices during and after sex.  Some partners like kissing their partner after oral sex only after the giver has cleaned first, and I have heard this reported from both men and women on this issue.  Don’t assume that just because it is inconvenient or may change the “mood” of the event, that it is not something that both partners would actually appreciate and benefit from a great deal.

Oil pulling is another tactic that I feel applies to safe sex practices.  It is of course not something we can do during or immediately after, but can be used once the sex is completed, and I feel is particularly useful before bed time, which is when I usually use it.  I personally don’t feel it’s the greatest “before sex” option, but rather after.

AWESOME NEW CONDOM CONCEPT:

When it comes to oral, vaginal or anal sex, all of these options present opportunity for infectious disease.  And, with these acts, there is no 100% sure way to avoid disease, it just does not exist.  That is something everyone needs to be aware of.

However, condoms provide an extremely high rate of safety.  And all it takes is just a little bit of getting used to, and they can provide *nearly as much* pleasure as going without.

For many men, the desensitization, which is minimal with a good condom, can actually assist the man in retaining erections longer, and increase his staying power, helping to avoid premature ejaculation.

The condoms I offer in this program are unique and special as you will see.  They are actually “vegan,” have flavored options, and are simply the sexy-est condom out there.

I would not offer them if they were not something different, and something you could benefit from, like every product and service I offer.  Check out these unique specialized condoms here.

 

P.S. Yogurt in vaginas.  Someone asked, so I’m giving my two cents:

It remains controversial as to whether oral probiotics can help vaginal health.  I’ve read some reports that insist they can’t, others insisting they can.  I tend to believe the latter, since a company I respect offers a line of probiotics specifically for that purpose.  One woman online discusses using yogurt, directly in the vagina, to take advantage of the cultures in the yogurt.  She reports that apparently her scent and taste is very pleasing.  My opinion: I would likely not use yogurt in my vagina…if I had one…;p…unless there was a definite issue being dealt with.  If you are having any kind of issue, research yogurt to see if it’s right for you.  You can likely find a lady or two on YouTube discussing it.  In my opinion, the vagina has a natural cleansing mechanism.  As long as there is no current problem, such as yeast overgrowth, I would not attempt to “fix what’s not broke.”

Some of these circles also report that the “fish” smell that is sometimes reported, is a sign of *bacterial* (as compared to yeast) overgrowth.  I have heard of women using silver products,  such as the colloidal silvers I promote, in the vagina to help manage this issue via a douche.  But if this tactic is used, it will be important to use probiotics afterward, to help re-populate the flora that colloidal silver will likely take with it, as it destroys the problem bacteria in the process.

Just my two cents on that topic.  If I had a vagina, perhaps I’d be able to offer even more worthwhile opinions.  😉